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Achieving The Mind-Body-Spirit Connection: A Stress Management Workbook
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Pith . n.
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"The first success is
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It's Break Time
I love the end
of November and beginning of December. Yes, it's in that busy
Thanksgiving-Christmas vortex, but that's not why I love it. I love it
because I get to look forward to my annual retreat.
The first
weekend of December I wander off to a place not far from home for a
three-day silent retreat. There are optional "talks" and spiritual
walks. But for the most part, it's just three days sitting quietly and
enjoying what's not there.
I enjoy being
away from cell phones and technology, customers and employees, bills and
invoices, strategic plans and sales meetings.
There's
nothing wrong with any of that stuff. But we fill our lives with busy-ness
and don't often take the time to put it all in perspective. We need the
perspective. We need to stop (not just slow down) and disconnect for
awhile.
I think you
cannot fully appreciate what it means to come to a complete stop until
you do so.
This month's
article is on the connection between Mind and Body. As you might
imagine, I collect articles about this connection. I enjoy them because
they reaffirm my belief that relaxation, focus, and balance are
intimately connected with success of every kind. The first success is
happiness and contentment. Everything else flows from there.
I welcome your feedback. Thanks.
-- Karl P.
karlp@relaxfocussucceed.com

Mind Over Body
By Karl W. Palachuk
Mind-Body Connections
We are constantly learning new things about
the connection between our mind and our
physical body. This connection seems almost
obvious to us in the twenty-first century.
But it hasn't always been so clear. And even
today we see a never-ending series of
research reports that verify the
relationship.
Among other things, we see reports like this:
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Laughter can reduce pain, stress, and inflammation. It
is also known to speed healing after an injury and provide a world of other
benefits. |
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Patience is related to high blood pressure. Or, I
should say, impatience is correlated with high blood pressure.
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Vacations are correlated with longer life! People who
take regular vacations can lower their death rates by 20-50%.
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Taking naps during the day at work can help you clear
your head, make fewer mistakes, improve your memory, and make you a more
pleasant person to be around. |
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Procrastination is correlated with having trouble
sleeping and minor health issues such as the common cold. |
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Meditation lowers blood pressure and leads to higher
levels of concentration, better sleep, and less stress. |
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Exercise in general is good for your heart, your
weight, your blood pressure, your sleep pattern, your bone density, and a
very long list of other benefits. |
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Contentment lowers levels of the stress hormone
cortisol and a protein called plasma fibrinogen. Cortisol leads to
inflammation (which leads to pain). Plasma fibrinogen protein leads to heart
disease. |
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Yoga has been shown to reduce stress, reduce pain,
increase concentration, and even help you lose weight. |
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Writing -- such as a journal -- can reduce stress
levels. It is also a great way to help focus your attention on things that
matter. |
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Prayer can help you stay healthy. Interestingly,
research even shows that intercessory prayer (when one person prays for
another) can reduce pain and inflammation in the "recipient."
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Hobbies reduce stress, increase contentment, and
improve positive mental attitude generally. |
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And More! |
If you keep your eyes open for these types of connections, you'll find them all
over the place. Many of these "common sense" connections have been the focus of
intense research over the last thirty years.
The
best news is that these behaviors can be learned. Whether you naturally laugh a
lot or you need to "teach" yourself to laugh more, you get the benefits
associated with the behavior.
For
some things, this makes obvious sense. After all, if you exercise, you expect
the benefits of exercise, and if you take naps you expect the benefits of taking
naps. But it is less obvious that some of these behaviors will bring the
benefits listed above. Still, it's true.
Contentment, for example, is related to positive mental attitude, time
pressures, and stress. When you're mentally or physically stressed, all your
emotions conspire to bring down your positive energy. And that depletes your
physical energy, which means you're less likely to spring into an exercise
routine or other activities that can bring you back "up."
Research has shown, for many of these behaviors, that you can actually force the
positive benefits upon yourself. If you don't naturally laugh a lot, for
example, you can adjust your television exposure to include more stupid sit-coms
and less news. This will improve your attitude -- whether you like it or not!
Some things are harder to work on than others. Overcoming procrastination, for
example, is partly a behavior you can change and partly tied in with other
issues. For most people, procrastination is related to time pressures, which
means stress. It often means that there are too many things on your "to do"
list, and you know you won't get them all done.
That situation leads to less exercise, no naps, no vacations, no hobbies, etc.
(you don't have the time). It doesn't take much energy to see that these are all
related. In a balanced life you have work and play, time on and time off,
exercise, hobbies, writing, prayers -- and the occasional nap.
In
other words, balance can bring you all the
health benefits listed above.
But
how do you get started?
That's up to you. First, make the commitment that that's what you want.
| Making a commitment to a new way of life is not simply
whispering in exhaustion that something has to change.
Making a commitment
to a new life means accepting in your heart and mind that
everything
has to change,
and deciding that
you will do the hard work necessary to make it happen.
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Second, pick a place to start and then begin. Start with laughter or meditation
or exercise. Or start with a hobby and writing and a nap. It doesn't matter.
This is a whole new you and you have the rest of your life to make
improvements.
Third, design a plan to add each of these elements to your life. Little by
little everything will get better. And that will make each step a little easier.
Improve everything in your life! What a great goal. Let's get started today!
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"Inertia is the single greatest barrier
to success. It's also the easiest to overcome. All you have to
do is act."
-- Keith Ellis
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