Encouraging Personal and Professional Success Through Balance

Encouraging Personal and Professional Success Through Balance

by Karl W. Palachuk

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November 2006

 

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Achieving The Mind-Body-Spirit Connection: A Stress Management Workbook

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Healing Mind, Healthy Woman: Using the Mind-Body Connection to Manage Stress and Take Control of Your Life

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The Body/Mind Connection

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Balance is the key to personal and professional success.

 

Knowing your goals and the path to achieve them is essential.

 

Being successful takes practice and dedication.

 

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"The first success is happiness and contentment. Everything else flows from there."

-- Karl W. Palachuk

"One never finds life worth living. One always has to make it worth living."
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"Form good habits and become their slave."
-- Og Mandina

 


 

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It's Break Time

 

I love the end of November and beginning of December. Yes, it's in that busy Thanksgiving-Christmas vortex, but that's not why I love it. I love it because I get to look forward to my annual retreat.

 

The first weekend of December I wander off to a place not far from home for a three-day silent retreat. There are optional "talks" and spiritual walks. But for the most part, it's just three days sitting quietly and enjoying what's not there.

 

I enjoy being away from cell phones and technology, customers and employees, bills and invoices, strategic plans and sales meetings.

 

There's nothing wrong with any of that stuff. But we fill our lives with busy-ness and don't often take the time to put it all in perspective. We need the perspective. We need to stop (not just slow down) and disconnect for awhile.

 

I think you cannot fully appreciate what it means to come to a complete stop until you do so.

 

This month's article is on the connection between Mind and Body. As you might imagine, I collect articles about this connection. I enjoy them because they reaffirm my belief that relaxation, focus, and balance are intimately connected with success of every kind. The first success is happiness and contentment. Everything else flows from there.

 

I welcome your feedback. Thanks.

 

-- Karl P.

karlp@relaxfocussucceed.com

 

Mind Over Body

By Karl W. Palachuk

Mind-Body Connections

We are constantly learning new things about the connection between our mind and our physical body. This connection seems almost obvious to us in the twenty-first century. But it hasn't always been so clear. And even today we see a never-ending series of research reports that verify the relationship.

 

Among other things, we see reports like this:

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Laughter can reduce pain, stress, and inflammation. It is also known to speed healing after an injury and provide a world of other benefits.

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Patience is related to high blood pressure. Or, I should say, impatience is correlated with high blood pressure.

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Vacations are correlated with longer life! People who take regular vacations can lower their death rates by 20-50%.

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Taking naps during the day at work can help you clear your head, make fewer mistakes, improve your memory, and make you a more pleasant person to be around.

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Procrastination is correlated with having trouble sleeping and minor health issues such as the common cold.

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Meditation lowers blood pressure and leads to higher levels of concentration, better sleep, and less stress.

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Exercise in general is good for your heart, your weight, your blood pressure, your sleep pattern, your bone density, and a very long list of other benefits.

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Contentment lowers levels of the stress hormone cortisol and a protein called plasma fibrinogen. Cortisol leads to inflammation (which leads to pain). Plasma fibrinogen protein leads to heart disease.

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Yoga has been shown to reduce stress, reduce pain, increase concentration, and even help you lose weight.

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Writing -- such as a journal -- can reduce stress levels. It is also a great way to help focus your attention on things that matter.

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Prayer can help you stay healthy. Interestingly, research even shows that intercessory prayer (when one person prays for another) can reduce pain and inflammation in the "recipient."

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Hobbies reduce stress, increase contentment, and improve positive mental attitude generally.

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And More!

If you keep your eyes open for these types of connections, you'll find them all over the place. Many of these "common sense" connections have been the focus of intense research over the last thirty years.

 

The best news is that these behaviors can be learned. Whether you naturally laugh a lot or you need to "teach" yourself to laugh more, you get the benefits associated with the behavior.

 

For some things, this makes obvious sense. After all, if you exercise, you expect the benefits of exercise, and if you take naps you expect the benefits of taking naps. But it is less obvious that some of these behaviors will bring the benefits listed above. Still, it's true.

 

Contentment, for example, is related to positive mental attitude, time pressures, and stress. When you're mentally or physically stressed, all your emotions conspire to bring down your positive energy. And that depletes your physical energy, which means you're less likely to spring into an exercise routine or other activities that can bring you back "up."

 

Research has shown, for many of these behaviors, that you can actually force the positive benefits upon yourself. If you don't naturally laugh a lot, for example, you can adjust your television exposure to include more stupid sit-coms and less news. This will improve your attitude -- whether you like it or not!

 

Some things are harder to work on than others. Overcoming procrastination, for example, is partly a behavior you can change and partly tied in with other issues. For most people, procrastination is related to time pressures, which means stress. It often means that there are too many things on your "to do" list, and you know you won't get them all done.

 

That situation leads to less exercise, no naps, no vacations, no hobbies, etc. (you don't have the time). It doesn't take much energy to see that these are all related. In a balanced life you have work and play, time on and time off, exercise, hobbies, writing, prayers -- and the occasional nap.

 

In other words, balance can bring you all the health benefits listed above.

 

But how do you get started?

 

That's up to you. First, make the commitment that that's what you want.

 

 

Making a commitment to a new way of life is not simply whispering in exhaustion that something has to change.

Making a commitment to a new life means accepting in your heart and mind that everything has to change,

and deciding that you will do the hard work necessary to make it happen.

 

 

 

Second, pick a place to start and then begin. Start with laughter or meditation or exercise. Or start with a hobby and writing and a nap. It doesn't matter. This is a whole new you and you have the rest of your life to make improvements.

 

Third, design a plan to add each of these elements to your life. Little by little everything will get better. And that will make each step a little easier.

 

Improve everything in your life! What a great goal. Let's get started today!

 


 

 

"Inertia is the single greatest barrier to success. It's also the easiest to overcome. All you have to do is act."


-- Keith Ellis

 

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