The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook
by Martha Davis, Matthew McKay, and Elizabeth Robbins Eshelman
Stress Reduction for Busy People: Finding Peace in an Anxious World
by Dawn Groves
Creating Calm In Your Life: A Guided Meditation and Stress Reduction CD
by Rivka Simmons
Look for the authors above on Amazon.com, at book sales, or at your favorite web site. Amazon and others offer used books and tapes as well as new.

Balance is the key to personal and professional success.

Knowing your goals and the path to achieve them is essential.

Being successful takes practice and dedication.
"The reason we all need a personal philosophy and goals is so we will have them to rely on in times of stress."
-- Karl W. Palachuk
"The best way to ruin your productivity is not to know where you are or what you are trying to do. If you don't know where you are in the function you are performing it is easy to stop actually performing. You start daydreaming, you allow yourself to get sidetracked, you get bored with the task at hand."
-- Vlad Mazek
"Who knows . . . You start pretending to have fun, you might even have a little by accident."
-- Batman Begins (the movie)
"It takes relaxation--and focus--to create and understand the balance in our lives."
-- Karl W. Palachuk
I thought I had done this yesterday, but I didn't. So here's the October Newsletter.
Once again, Fall is upon us.
And once again we move into the "stress" season. This month's article is on reducing stress. These tips are really good all year long. But if you haven't gotten into these habits yet, this is a great time to start!
I welcome your feedback via email. Thanks.
In the meantime, here's a
good recap of some of the many things you
can do to reduce stress. As with any other
Muscle of Success, you need to practice
these things all the time. You need to be
"in shape" before you need these stress
reduction techniques.
So, without further adieu, here's a grab-bag of stress reducers for the next few months:
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Exercise. Doesn't have to be geared toward building strength, breaking records, losing weight, etc. Just do something. Physically take your body away from your routine and use it! | |
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Write in a Journal. Again, this doesn't have to be an account of what you did today, or your attempt to find the mouth of the Missouri River. It can be ideas for your business, or thoughts about family. Consider making it as positive as possible. That will bring additional benefits. | |
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Relaxation Exercises. This includes meditation, prayer, or almost any quiet time that you spend sitting (or lying) and not trying to do anything. | |
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Schedule Things. Make people schedule your time. They will value it more, and you will create the ability to say "I can't do that, I have a conflict." There are many tools to help with this. If you own a computer, you probably own several of these tools. Pick one and use it. | |
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Make Sleep a Priority. Schedule a time to get up and get up on time. Schedule a time to go to bed and go to bed on time. If you can take an afternoon nap, try it! | |
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Eat Healthy, Drink Healthy. This is really hard around the holidays. Don't start a new diet. Don't think you can avoid pies and cakes and chocolate. But pick a few things and don't overdue it. In all things moderation. | |
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Think Positive Thoughts. Research has shown that people who expose themselves to laughter and comedy can "learn" to have a more positive attitude. See the Batman quote in the Pith section: "Who knows . . . You start pretending to have fun, you might even have a little by accident." | |
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Avoid Negativity and Negative Situations. Just walk away. The compliment to moving toward positive thoughts is to move away from negative thoughts. These are separate activities and you need to do both. |
If you need a little outside help, here it is:

Download this in full size PDF format.
Here's a certificate that may work for you. It's worth a try, right? Print off as many as you need!
We all know the negative effects of stress. In addition to fatigue, anger, and ruined personal relationships, stress can kill you. Don't ignore that. Stress can make you sick in every way -- physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Opt Out.
Working on reducing stress is working on:
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Improving your personal relationships | |
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Improving your work and work habits | |
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Improving your health | |
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Improving your sex life | |
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Improving your business relationships | |
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Making you a more pleasant person to be around | |
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Making you more approachable (and fun) | |
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Making you live longer | |
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Working less and getting more done | |
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Make your time on earth more enjoyable
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So give yourself a gift today. And give yourself that gift every day for the rest of the year. Take some time every morning to sit quietly and consider your goals, and your general situation. Begin working on "the big picture."
Work on stress reduction is work on your personally and professional success. Take it seriously.
And enjoy the rest of the year!
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"You don't pay the price for success -- You pay the price for failure."
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